this gets me upset as a man. i see this and i really do get angry. why you ask? because on a base level, in some primordial archaic place, probably deep in my male dna, this guy is useless. a male who replicates the feminine is now useless to me. that man is not going to go kill deer with me in the forest. that man is not going to lock step with me on a battle line when the horde of Persian soldiers comes over the hill. that man is not going to put me on his shoulder and carry me to the medic when i get shot in the leg. this man, is useless as a man. there are unique qualities to your gender i believe one should embrace. and qualities of the opposite gender one should reject.
when someone says “this gets me upset as a man” it’s an immediate cue for me to stop paying attention to what follows
“that man is not going to lock step with me on a battle line when the horde of Persian soldiers comes over the hill.”
word of advice, dude: fedoras aren’t effective combat helmets